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Commitment Takes A Discussion (Ten Questions)
Are You Ready & Are They Ready:
1) What’s your reaction to being judged negatively?
2) Is Conflict a sign we need to talk or walk away?
3) Is “I don’t know” a good enough answer to any question?
4) What does a successful relationship look like?
5) What holds a relationship together, and are you able to honor those things?
6) What do you believe will never change about you?
7) What do you want to give back to the world?
8) How many sexual partners did you have and why?
9) Can you wake up daily and promise to be transparent?
10) If I am not enough, would you promise to tell me?
Why Me?
We look people in the eyes, feeling a sense of care that makes us ask, “Why Me”? Our hearts begin to slow, and a home is in the process of being constructed. We call and speak for hours, text when we can’t talk, and prioritize falling in Love over everything. Why? It isn’t because nothing else has meaning or because sharing life with someone gives everything else meaning. We go to work with more passion. We look at our children with hope. We smile at strangers, sharing our faith in a glance. All the while asking ourselves, “why me”? Why not you? What did you do that was so harsh that you don’t deserve someone wanting to have their lives intertwined with yours? What did you do that led you to believe you weren’t worthy of someone investing everything they have in you? Yes, there is evil in this world, but it is up to you to trust the good when it comes. They are honest, trusting, dedicated, and devoted to you. Believe it. Ask yourself, “Why them.” What about them that causes you to light up at night and dream in the daytime? Why are the creases in your face transformed in their presence? Doesn’t that make you ask why not me, why not them, why not us? It’s okay. Lose control in the faith of Love.
What Do You Bring To The Table? (Part One)
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What Do You Bring to the Table is a podcast about honoring what we contribute to relationships. First off, we want to thank Jasmine, Mahagony, Chris, Xavier, Allwynter, and David for discussing what they bring to the table in their relationships. The group sat down to discuss the importance of understanding what we give to our connections to understand the people’s value in our lives. Each person must believe they have value in a relationship before they can say it’s a relationship. Co-dependency isn’t a relationship; it’s a service. We need to get back to building Accountable Relationships where we are giving as must as we are putting in. “What Do You Bring to the Table” encourages our viewers to examine their relationships. So, they can begin building equal, healthier, and just relationships. Remember, Insecurities are the Silent Relationship Killers. Listen, Learn, and Enjoy!
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The LoveSnobs are two friends that were tired of people saying they wanted accountable relationships but lacked a road map to acquire them. So, The AccountableLove Podcast does just that. It gives people a road map by defining terms, discussing building strong principles, and inviting everyday people to discuss building Accountable Relationships. The LoveSnobs believe Love Is A Group Journey, so let’s start your journey toward healthier, supportive, Loving Relationships.
Friendships Should Build Villages
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“Friendships Should Build Villages” is a podcast about three friends who have built a village. Friendship isn’t easy. With the right friends, it does make life easier. The Lovesnobs and Jasmine discuss all the trials and tribulations. Their joys and reasons. As a result, their bonds, which built their connection. The LoveSnobs invite their friend Jasmine to the podcast to discuss what it takes to make a secure community through fellowship. It isn’t about the parties or the tears. Friendship is about devotion, dedication, honesty, and trust daily. How we build our friends should be the foundation of our lives. Therefore, “Friendships Should Build Villages” is a discussion for people interested in strengthening their friendship. Listen, Learn, Enjoy The Podcast
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The LoveSnobs are two friends who are tired of people saying they wanted Accountable Relationships. Yet, they lacked road maps to acquire them. Therefore, The Lovesnobs started “The AccountableLove Podcast,” which does just that. Creates a road map for people by defining terms, discussing building strong principles, and inviting everyday people to discuss building Accountable Relationships. The LoveSnobs believe Love Is A Group Journey. As a result, our journey is to build healthier, supportive, Loving Relationships. Join The Discussion! Listen, Learn and Enjoy
How Do You Know You Are Dating A Runner?
How you know you are dating a Runner?
1) They never speak in the future tense.
2) They are the masters at picking fights.
3) They deflect when asked direct questions.
4) They believe it is a privilege when they tell you their secrets.
5) They focus on sex over a spiritual connection.
6) They lack true faith but always question other’s beliefs.
7) They turn to substances instead of people.
8) They push the individuality agenda over togetherness.
9) They live in their heads and rarely want to communicate vocally.
10) They prefer to crack jokes about their insecurities instead of sitting and talking about them.
How Do You Know You Are Dating A Victim?
1) They always talk about being controlled.
2) They never want to be labeled
3) They want to decide how deep every discussion can go
4) They call you wise, then call you a “know it all” when you are wise with them
5) They are forever evolving so they never have to evolve
6) They see honesty as insulting and limiting
7) They say “sorry” way too much
8) They believe in God until you hold them to God’s standards
9) They are a great escape artist
10)They talk more about perception than principles that can be honored.
Emotional Intelligence
When we divide love, how are we supposed to use it to come together? In studying emotions, We found that people are more inclined to make their feelings specific than to acknowledge, though the experiences are distinct, the actual emotions aren’t. We all experience the same signs and symptoms; that is how we cannot only label, but also diagnose them. Being happy is enjoying a moment that brings us joy. Happiness is looking around you and enjoying everything you see; it’s a state of being; it involves being in a form that allows us to continue to be optimistic about life. Being angry is when someone or something causes us to lose self-control, causing us to either lash out or walk out (fight or flight); funny how much that mirrors fear. The emotion that causes us to lose control of yourself also causes us to ‘defend’ or ‘run for comfort.’ Misery is the negative state of being that causes us not to enjoy life; it causes us to become pessimistic about everything involving life. We label these emotions to understand what, when, where, how, and most importantly, why we are going through them. We wouldn’t be able to understand the functions of man without categorizing things, and here we are trying to fight labels as opposed to understanding what labels we wish to embrace. When we know each emotion, and we know what will cause those emotions, we’re more inclined to walk closer to the desired feelings and walk away from the undesirable ones. Remind ourselves that “We comprised of definitions that define us, and if we don’t like the meaning of something that describes us, we shouldn’t change the meaning, we should change the descriptive.” When that is understood, LOVE will be the definition that describes us, meeting our destination of being bonded together!!!!
LaVarn Joins The LoveSnobs (Podcast)
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In this podcast, LaVarn Joins The LoveSnobs, Aziz invites his mother to discuss generational Love. LaVarn grew up in the ’60s & ’70s, so she was raised on a different type of Love than her son Aziz “Mr. Love” Brown. Therefore, She navigated what part of her upbringing to teach and what amount to unlearn. As a result, they swap stories, exchange concepts, and discuss AccountableLove. LaVarn explains how the church was the driving force of her knowledge of Love in her time. Love is more of a spiritual practice these days, Aziz & Jerri adds. LaVarn Joins The LoveSnobs to discuss generational Love. As a result, bridging the gap between generations in the process. Listen, Learn, and Enjoy!
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The LoveSnobs are two friends who are tired of people saying they wanted Accountable Relationships. Yet, they lacked road maps to acquire them. Therefore, The Lovesnobs started “The AccountableLove Podcast,” which does just that. Creates a road map for people by defining terms, discussing building strong principles, and inviting everyday people to discuss building Accountable Relationships. The LoveSnobs believe Love Is A Group Journey. As a result, our journey is to build healthier, supportive, Loving Relationships. Join The Discussion! Listen, Learn and Enjoy
Relationships Should Be Everyone’s Study
We are on this earth. But why? We (The LoveSnobs) believe the answers to this question is to build equal and just relationships while making the earth. It is a known fact that people are more productive when in productive relationships. It seems like common sense, yet people continue to risk meaningful relationships for personal gain. It ultimately leaves a trail of misery. Hurt is infectious. The cure is studying what makes relationships functional. I know, when people see the word “study,” they see school or specialist but isn’t life school, and shouldn’t we all want to specialize in relationships. Yes!
We shouldn’t enter relationships blindly, nor should we misuse people to discover what we want. Transparency and genuineness come from understanding yourself enough to offer Love. Close your eyes and picture what you wish to in complementary people. People that enhance you and you enhance them. It is the start of equal and just relationships. We sit down with the person/people, getting to know them by asking questions, observing the answers in their actions, while exposing ourselves. That’s the hard part, “exposing ourselves.” We fear judgment because of all the missteps of our past. We fear not being liked or just being rejected. Yet, we crave connection. So, we avoid conflict. We go with the flow because we are in our heads forgiving to reveal our hearts. Our convictions are a big part of who we all are, but we remain silent. Conflict is an essential part of the process—our hearts house our principles and convictions. We get lost in our relationships because we forget to expose ourselves. We forget we would believe it is vital to the survival of our relationships. Let’s study. Sex, physical attraction, and desires will motivate us to open the relationship door, but it will only become a relationship if we are comfortable with commitment. Commitment stems from our ability to find common ground with people that are like-minded and same hearted. It’s setting a destination and working daily to get to that destination. It is okay to make plans for your life. It is necessary to plan to have an equal and just relationship. The first sign of someone that doesn’t want to commit is their inability to plan. True freedom has a structure. Consistency equals dependability. We all want some we know will be present. We can go on o and on, but the moral to this post is Relationships Should Be Everyone’s Study.
Can You Define Love?
We Love stories of people overcoming the odds. We get all of our worth from helping people to become better people. What if we fall in Love with stories of people maintaining what pure Love means? What if we received worth from supporting people that are courageous enough to raise human standards?
Let’s define “Love.” Define Love so we can teach it. Think about sitting down with a friend who is being abused by their partner. How do you convince them to walk away? When their idea of Love means staying. Think of sitting with a friend that is abusing their partner. How do you encourage them to stop? When “Love” means controlling their partner. We Love to use the phrase, “Love is different to different people. Did we ever think that Love has never genuinely been actualized to so many people?
We watch people stay in one bad relationship after the next until the dysfunction has become our definition of Love. We have started seeking drama to say we have overcome odds or have gone from helpless to hopeful. We are now a success story because we dreamt small and broke even. We believe this is living.
What if we told you life is about surrounding yourself with people who want to maintain Love’s value. People that don’t just want to be Loved or give Love because they believe the way they live daily should represent Love. What if we told you, “Love could only be realized” by living every day, making it a reality. It will take being a LoveSnob. It will take believing Love can not only be lived but taught.
