Are You Ready & Are They Ready:
1) What’s your reaction to being judged negatively?
2) Is Conflict a sign we need to talk or walk away?
3) Is “I don’t know” a good enough answer to any question?
4) What does a successful relationship look like?
5) What holds a relationship together, and are you able to honor those things?
6) What do you believe will never change about you?
7) What do you want to give back to the world?
8) How many sexual partners did you have and why?
9) Can you wake up daily and promise to be transparent?
10) If I am not enough, would you promise to tell me?
Posted in Accountable Relationships Blog
Could you talk about what this looks like in action though?I’ve had these conversations and asked these questions . I received the answers that they thought I wanted to hear. It wasn’t the thruth. There are people that will pretend to be in alignment with you.
Pretenders are real with any relationships. Some people pretend to want a commitment and want something else. Some people think they believe in the answers they are given but can’t maintain what it entails in action. Jerri and I both have run into people that tell us one thing and do another. Nobody is exempt. Yet, how long we hold onto them is the difference between a lesson and scars.
It is funny that you asked us to do it in action because we did a podcast to answer these questions using one another. Let us know it this helps. Here is the link: https://loveisagroupjourney.com/podcast/are-you-ready-for-a-commitment/
and if you want to watch it: https://youtu.be/vjuZr5O8DbY.
Thank you for reaching out and being serious about building equal and healthy relationships
The podcast is amazing. Thank you guys for being transparent with your answers.
Thank you! It’s excellent that listening to our podcast answered your questions. We always try to be as transparent as possible with our listeners. And to add on to what you asked in your first message. It is vital that every time you ask a question, you get an answer that allows you to hold the person accountable for their answers. It would be best if you also looked for an equal relationship. A person that wants to be clear and open not just feels they have to be transparent and open. Thank you for the follow-up. If you have any other questions, never hesitate to ask.