How To Know You’re Dating A Runner

A Runner isn’t afraid of you. They’re afraid of being known. Here are ten signs you’re dating one:

• They never speak in the future tense.
• They’re masters at picking fights.
• They deflect when you ask a direct question.
• They treat telling you their secrets like they’re doing you a favor.
• They prioritize sex over a spiritual connection.
• They lack real faith of their own, but always question everyone else’s.
• They turn to substances instead of to people.
• They push the individuality agenda over togetherness.
• They live in their heads and rarely want to talk it out loud.
• They’d rather crack jokes about their insecurities than sit and actually discuss them.

A Runner keeps one foot out the door so they never have to feel the fear of staying. But you can’t build a home with someone who’s always ready to leave.

So if this list looks familiar — the question isn’t whether they’ll stop running. It’s whether you’re willing to keep chasing someone who won’t stand still long enough to be loved.

The LoveSnobs