Messages on the Move

Drama does not equate to excitement in Accountable Relationships. In this Messages On The Move, Aziz discusses how maintaining the purity of our relationships should be what makes our relationships exciting. The most complex achievement in a changing world is finding stability. When you find peace, why add drama to the relationship? Drama does not equate to excitement in accountable relationships.

Let’s Discuss Four Points on How “Drama Does Not Equate To Excitement In Accountable Relationships:

Why Are You In Relationships? 

Our reason for agreeing to be in relationships is to enhance our and other’s lives. If one part of that equation is missing, it is no longer a relationship, and drama ensues. You can be in a healthy and drama-free relationship. The Key is keeping the purpose the primary purpose. 

Why Do You See Drama As Being Purposeful?

Many people confuse drama with conflict. In turn, they start to believe drama is purposeful. Conflict is healthy in relationships. People don’t always agree, but they have to have the tool to resolve the disputes, or drama will be the result. Drama doesn’t equal purpose. It equals bad stress. Therefore, drama does not equate to excitement. 

Why Do you Connect to Drama?

Drama can be fun/exciting when we watch it on the television or read it in a book. In reality, it sucks the life out of our commitments. Drama isn’t our friend, so we need to stop building a connection to it. Remain focused! Core Values, Joy, Passion are our connecting points.

What Is True Excitement? 

Accountable Relationships are True Excitement! True Excitement is waking up with the desire to maintain everything we built with the people we Love. What is more exciting than knowing we are investing our time on earth, honoring the agreements of our relationships. Drama does not equate to excitement in our relationships when we embrace the pleasure of accountability.

Aziz explains further, Why drama does not equate to excitement in Accountable Relationships in the video below. Listen, Learn, and Apply! Enjoy!

By The LoveSnobs

Loyalty In Our Relationships is a Message On The Move about How to Apply Loyalty To All Our Relationships. We tend to believe loyalty means stand by someone once they are in a bind. Loyalty is proactive. It is an agreement to honor the word over the people. We have to be loyal to the relationships we promise to be a part of, not a person’s independent action. 

Aziz explains four ways to maintain Loyalty in a relationship.  

1) Loyalty Is A Boomerang Like Love –

Loyalty is a commitment to walk together and tackle the unforeseen obstacles that may occur in life. It isn’t a standard to lift someone when they are choosing to jump down. We should throw Loyalty at others, knowing it would come back. Not hoping it will! 

2) Honoring The Faith Of Loyalty –

Before we can honor Loyalty in our relationships, we have to understand what Loyalty means. Everyone must enter a relationship saying, “we are ready to keep the relationship healthy” by fully committing to the agreement to be loyal. We can’t commit selfish acts against our relationships and call it “disloyalty” when people walk away for us. We Broke The Contract. 

3) Taking A Disloyal Person Back –

Now, there will be times people are disloyal. How can they repair the relationship? They can take ownership of what they did, map out what they will do going forward, and start rebuilding the relationship with consistency. Accountability is always the start but being committed to repairing the hole shows they are ready.

4) Loyalty Is Greater Than Us –

Loyalty isn’t a person. It is people working together to bring the word to life. Loyalty only exists when people agree, walk, and live the agreement. It is who we become through believing in something greater than ourselves—Being loyal in our relationships is one of many foundations. We must practice and preserve it daily.

Loyalty in our relationships should be the norm. Be as long as we continue to make it the exception. People will continue to expect the exceptional to be the only ones providing it. 

By The LoveSnobs

Watch The Video Below. Aziz Explain Loyalty is our relationship in great detail. 

Joy Is A Requirement In Our Relationships! 

Why shouldn’t it be? 

We all join relationships for security, and a part of security is making sure Joy always exists in all our relationships. There will be pain, trials, disagreement, but the destination should always be Joy. 

Joy Is A Requirement

We Choose Relationships That Bring Us Joy – We attract people who appeal to our selfish wants, desires, and needs. We should want people in our lives. Not out of necessity but simply because they are motivated by our Joy. We want people because they suit us.

Bring Others Joy – We also attract people because we fulfill a want, desire, need in others. We gravitate to particular people because they give us purpose. We are dedicated to their Joy. Joy Is A Requirement

Do We Share Enough Interest – Joy in relationships is predicated on shared interest. What makes Joyous relationships isn’t our interest but the interest we have in common with others. We must share interests that are important to everyone involved. If we don’t have shared interests, the relationship would be forced and ultimately dissolve. 

Define What Joy Means – This should have been on the top of the list. Define your term. What does Joy mean? If we don’t understand what Joy means to us, can we expect others to provide it? No! So, sit down and have a clear definition of what Joy means to you. 

So remember, Joy, Is A Requirement In Our Relationships. 

Watch the video below. Aziz explains further how Joy is a requirement in our relationships.

Listen, Learn, Enjoy 

by The LoveSnobs 

Let’s Talk About Fatigue And How To Still Connect In Your Relationships is a message on the move about not dealing with fatigue alone. Fatigue is a physical ailment but a mental and emotional deterrent in our relationships. Jerri explains why it is essential to let people in instead of shutting them out. When fatigue sets in, follow these four steps to preserve the health of your relationships. 

First Step: 

The first step is “being mindful of your mood.” As soon as you wake up, reflect on your mood and the mood you want. Strive for the spirit you want to be in because feeling fatigued means we have to be more mindful of our behavior.

Step Two:

The second step is to “reach out and express your mood.” It would be best if you didn’t hide how you are feeling. If fatigue is setting in, opening up to someone, tell them how you feel. The goal should be searching for ways to shake the feeling and get back to being your best. 

Step Three: 

The third step is to “honor your commitments.” When fatigue is setting in for whatever reason, think about your promises to ours. Use those promises as motivation to get out of bed and joy life. If you can do it for yourself, do it because you value your relationships. 

Step Four:

The fourth step is “ask for help.” Suppose you have things you have to get done in the day. Ask someone if they can assist you. It’s okay to say I need support. Whether you need to rest or cross one more thing from your list of responsibilities, it all helps. So, ask for assistance!

Keep in mind, Love Is A Group Journey, and if you are struggling with fatigue, don’t be afraid to follow all four steps. Your relationships will thank you for it. Let’s Continue to Talk About Fatigue And How To Still Connect In Your Relationships

Play the video below for more details 

Listen, Learn, and Apply!

By TheLoveSnobs

We can Prolong life by having healthy relationships. We exercise to maintain health, build muscle mass for strength, and to feel great. 

The LoveSnobs ask do want healthy relationships for the same reasons. 

• Is It The Feeling That Motivates Us

Are we entering relationships because they make us feel good? We meet someone who matches our interest, and we enjoy their company. Is that what keeps us around? 

• Is It The Need To Survive

Are we joining relationships because we need people? Believe it or not, people do start relationships out of necessity. They surround themselves with people who fulfill a need.  

• Are You In Relationships To Maintain Your Legacy

Do you want healthy relationships for generational factors? People are always watching, especially our youth. Having healthy relationships can change how they cultivate relationships themselves. 

• Can You Live With Changes

Can you adapt to change? Change is absolute. It will occur whether we like it or not. We must have the foundation in place to succeed in transition. 

• Think About Why You Want Healthy Relationships

Are you in healthy Relationships? The LoveSnobs want you to think about the reason you decided to connect with others. Be honest, is it for a feel, survival, legacy, or all of the above. 

The LoveSnobs expand on all five points in this video.

They also want you (the viewer) to start thinking about why we exercise to stay in physical shape without sharing life with people. Healthy Relationships don’t just prolong our lives, but they enhance our quality of life. 

By The LoveSnobs

“Accountable Friends Go Beyond The Years” is a Message on the Move about Accountable Friendships. We watch movie after movie illustrating the counting of the years. But, years (time) can make us or break us. When we call someone our friend, the way we spend the time together validates that title. Jerri explains that very point. 

Jerri has been watching a show about friends going through their life experiences together. The series highlights the ups and downs, what is say and what’s not say, but it’s the same narrative. Someone keeps a secret, the secret gets explored, friends are not talking, and the friends use distance to start speaking again. They never honestly discuss the root cause of why they didn’t share the secret or the importance of sharing. The drama and lack of explanation make for good television. Is it how we should conduct our relationships in real life? 

Jerri’s answer to that question is “No!” So, She decided to have a brief message highlighting some essential questions we should ask and answer to be accountable friends. 

• Why Are We Friends?
• What Is Our Foundation?
• How To Build A Better Foundation?

Watch the Video, Call some friends up, and start working toward becoming Accountable Friends. 

By The LoveSnobs

Let’s discuss Accountable Relationships. Aziz discusses what it takes to be in Accountable Relationships. He explains the importance of choosing the best spouse and friends to create the right environment to raise children. In this Messages On The Move, Aziz will explain the significance of aligned core values.

Spouses:

When picking a spouse, it is essential to share core values. As The LoveSnobs mentioned in many videos before. Core Values are the foundation of all our relationships. With a spouse, they are critical in building a home. Two people are entwining their family, friends, and sometimes children. So, having core values that align increases the likelihood that everyone in both people’s lives will integrate seamlessly. This assures less strain on the partnership, increasing the chance to be in Accountable Relationships.

Friends:

As mentioned in the paragraph above, Core Values are necessary for any relationship to flourish. A friendship isn’t as intimate as a spousal connection, but it is close. Picking the right friends is the difference between putting the right or wrong address in a GPS. They are our advisors. Friends can point us in the right direction or add drama to our lives. Building your friendships based on your core values will be a step toward being in Accountable Relationships.

Children:

One of the signs of a great parent is their ability to establish a great support system. Family is fantastic but having a supportive spouse/co-parent and friends increases the likelihood that we will have all the tools to be a present parent. When everyone has similar core values, the child or children have standards and concentrated directions. Ensuring the children will have strong character and self-confidence. Having Accountable Relationships before having children is ideal, but building them for our children’s future is vital.

Aziz explains the value of Accountable Relationships further in the video ” Let’s Discuss Accountable Relationships” below. So, enjoy the Message on the Move and Listen, Learn, and Apply.

By The LoveSnobs

“Don’t Start Any Connection Through Pain” is a message on the move about building connections on pain. Pain is an easy connection for people because everyone has experienced pain. Joy is difficult because many people have not defined what joy is to them.

Aziz breaks down why starting any relationship through pain can create a spiral effect. He questions “why a person has to understand your pain to connect with you.” He explains, the main focus when entering any relationships should be to receive and bring Joy, period.

Connecting On Pain

When we meet someone new, are we identifying with them because they understand all our hardships? Or are we identifying with them because we believe they will enhance our life? Too many of us connect with people who share our past pain and fewer people who better our future. The whole point of building a new connection is to create a quality of life.

Connecting On Joy

Joy is something most want, but few have the discipline to achieve it. Let’s connect with people because they can provide us happiness. How? Make lifetime plans with your friends and spouses. Don’t destroy the relationships with pain from your past. Look forward! There is a difference between communicating to heal pain and connecting on pain.

I Choose Joy

In the video below, Aziz explains how he chooses joy. He only sees the pleasure he can add and receive in his relationships. When people focus on improving each other’s lives, they enjoy being in each other’s lives.

Think About

At the end of the video, Aziz asks all the viewers to think about his lesson. Our relationships are essential, and how we are building our foundation will determine their strength. Don’t Start Any Connection Through Pain. It’s a weak foundation. Enjoy the Video. Don’t just watch this message on the move. Learn from it.

By TheLoveSnobs

Our Relationships are a Corporation! Aziz explains how our Accountable relationships (spouses, Friends, and Children) as our corporation. People chase money but forget about their relationships. Well, if we start looking at our relationships as a corporation. We will start valuing our investments in our relationships.

You & Your Spouse Are CEOs

When entering a romantic partnership, we should see them as someone we build a lifelong commitment to. We are merging friends, children, and families. Our life becomes their life. If we can see them as lifetime partners, we should be committing to them.

Friends Are Our Investors

First off, our romantic partners are investors because they are building and sustaining the corporation. But, our friends the investors. They are not tied to us romantically, but they have a lifetime stake in the success dreams. They want to see our corporation succeed not just because they are our friends also because when we nurtured, they nurtured.

Our Children Are Our Legacy

We look around us, and we have picked the right CEO, the best investors, now we are ready to pass on the Legacy. We have children so they can heir all the work we gave to the world. We want them to have the blueprint to finding the right CEO, the best investors, and the perfect corporation.

The LoveSnobs want everyone to see their relationships as their corporation, and building Accountable Relationships will make for a more productive life.

Aziz Breaks it down further in the video below. Watch it and start building your corporation with Accountable Relationships.

The LoveSnobs,