“Don’t Start Any Connection Through Pain” is a message on the move about building connections on pain. Pain is an easy connection for people because everyone has experienced pain. Joy is difficult because many people have not defined what joy is to them.
Aziz breaks down why starting any relationship through pain can create a spiral effect. He questions “why a person has to understand your pain to connect with you.” He explains, the main focus when entering any relationships should be to receive and bring Joy, period.
Connecting On Pain
When we meet someone new, are we identifying with them because they understand all our hardships? Or are we identifying with them because we believe they will enhance our life? Too many of us connect with people who share our past pain and fewer people who better our future. The whole point of building a new connection is to create a quality of life.
Connecting On Joy
Joy is something most want, but few have the discipline to achieve it. Let’s connect with people because they can provide us happiness. How? Make lifetime plans with your friends and spouses. Don’t destroy the relationships with pain from your past. Look forward! There is a difference between communicating to heal pain and connecting on pain.
I Choose Joy
In the video below, Aziz explains how he chooses joy. He only sees the pleasure he can add and receive in his relationships. When people focus on improving each other’s lives, they enjoy being in each other’s lives.
Think About
At the end of the video, Aziz asks all the viewers to think about his lesson. Our relationships are essential, and how we are building our foundation will determine their strength. Don’t Start Any Connection Through Pain. It’s a weak foundation. Enjoy the Video. Don’t just watch this message on the move. Learn from it.
By TheLoveSnobs
