Loyalty Goes Both Ways In Relationships discusses the importance of embracing Loyalty as a two-sided concept. We expected the people who we betrayal to be loyal. Yet, where was the Loyalty before we acted against the commitment? If they decide to walk away from our disloyalty actions, it isn’t an act of disloyalty. It is an act of virtue. They are placing the integrity of the agreement above their desire to continue the relationship. We have to want to be in accountable relationships.
Aziz Discussed Three Points About How Loyalty Goes Both Ways In Relationships.
Loyalty Isn’t One-sided – When we enter any commitment, agreement, relationship, it is with the intention we are going to honor our word. We shouldn’t be loyal to the person as much as the agreement we promised to maintain. So, when anybody goes outside of the contract, they are disloyal, which means there is no longer an agreement to honor by the betrayed part/s. The maintenance of being loyal is not a one-sided affair!
How Was Loyalty Taught – We hear people repeatedly express their disappointment in people not sticking by them. Yet, not once do they ask themselves what did I do to push people away. We teach Loyalty as about holding on to relationships through repeated disappointment. It isn’t loyal. It unhealthy practices passed from generation to generation. Being loyal is thinking about our agreements and relationships before we act against them.
Remember Loyalty Is – We must never forget we choose the people we want to go through life with, and they’re choosing us. We build our relationships because we believe they will enhance our quality of life. Loyalty is a big part of our connections, so define what being loyal is in your relationships.
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