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Women, What Do You Mean By Broke Man?

In the latest Relationship Messages on the Move: Woman, what do you mean by broke man? In the video below, Aziz asks women what do they mean by not wanting a broke man. He had this discussion with several women, listened to women online, and read several posts and articles about women being tired of a “Broke Man.” As a result, Aziz asks three questions and explains where he agrees.

1) Is It About A Financial Equal?
2) Is It About Financial Dependency?
3) Is it Them Being broken?

Is A “Broke Man” About A Financial Equal?

Are women saying they need someone who can match their financial success? Women who have rolled up their sleeves and build their financial means and want someone else who can carry their own financially. As a result, they don’t want someone to take care of them and don’t want to take care of anyone else.

Is It About A Financial Dependency?

Are women saying they want someone to take care of them financially? They want a man willing to fund their lifestyle and work hard while they play harder.

 Is It About Being Broken?

Are women saying they don’t want a broken man? For instance, A man who comes into the relationship with bags of issues. Past cheating habits, lack of ambition, inability to express themselves, or no trust in women (Trust issues).

Aziz explains if it is the Latter, he understands.

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Surrounding Yourself With Great People Is Self-Help

Surrounding yourself with great people is self-help. Self-help is discussed on social media, blogs and has become a relationship genre, but we can’t understand ourselves without interacting with other people. Surrounding yourself with great people is self-help. You are helping yourself with great friends, a great spouse, and great children. Ultimately you are a better “you” when surrounded by great people.

Other People Cover Our Blind Stops:

In the video below, Aziz explains how building a village will increase the likelihood of improving self-awareness. He breaks down how others cover our blind spots. We can’t look in front and behind us at the same time. We need people to express our bad habits and reassure our good ones. How can we genuinely evaluate ourselves with two sets of eyes? Multiple eys are better.

You Decide Who Is in Your Life:

As adults, we decide who is in our daily lives. When having the wrong people in our lives, Aziz states we start to see the world through our companies’ eyes. If they complain, we find ourselves whining or complaining about them complaining. It would be best if we always remembered self-help means keeping the right company in the present. Let’s build a group of people on the same page and have positive outlooks on life because multiple eyes are only effective when they are not ineffective.

Are You In Accountable Relationships?

When we have Accountable Relationships, everyone is comfortable with lift one another. We have challenging discussions until their resolution, discuss anything with conviction, and have the security of knowing there are always people in our lives rooting for us. Why would we be worried about building ourselves when we have built a team?

Surrounding yourself with great people is self-help. You are helping yourself with great friends, a great spouse, and great children.

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Jerri AccountableLove Relationship Weather Report

 

Relationship Weather Report.

Jerri has an AccountableLove Relationship Weather Report. In our relationships, storms will come, but it should not be normal practice to weather storms. We should be playing in the snow, not allowing it to bury our relationships. Jerri will explain how Snow Storm 2021 should bring your relationships closer, not make us cold. So, Listen, Learn, and Apply because this AccountableLove Relationship Weather Report is a reminder that we control how we deal with the storms.

Building Accountable Relationships

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What Is The Power of Community

What is the power of building community? Jerri explains the importance of building a community through your relationships. In our society, we separate our friends from our spouses and children. What if we started to see our relationships as one big community? We would begin to connect with like minds and the same hearts.
When we have a village mentality, we start seeing us instead of me. Jerri explains how believing in a community is the key to Accountable Relationships. We are stronger when we have support; without support, we are only treading water. So, What is the power in building community? Watch the video, and Jerri will answer that question.

 

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Relationships Are A Faith

We forget that relationships are a FAITH. So, we lose track of faith and try to control what we can’t. All the wondering, the doubts, and the insecurities. We spend so much time thinking about what can happen negatively and not enough time remembering what is proven. Aziz reminds us that relationships are a FAITH and the key to healthier and equal relationships surrounding us.

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We All Want Relationships

When we hear people say, “I don’t want a relationship,” pain is the thought that accompanies that statement. They are unconsciously saying, “I lost faith in my ability to connect with others.” How do we build our faith back? Aziz discusses how We All Want Relationships.

 

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Think of the Home Before You Say “Yes” Outside of it.

Taking responsibility for our agreements is essential. A part of taking responsibility for action is being our best, even when we feel our worst. We should never bite off more than we can chew because it will cause us to choke. So, when prioritizing our relationships, we should be honest about everything we are carrying outside those relationships. Jerri discusses the importance of thinking of the home before you say “Yes” outside of it.

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Weaknesses Hurt Our Relationships

Aziz discusses leading with your weaknesses in our relationships. Shortcomings should never make us leaders—our ability to know when to follow someone else’s strengths, which allows us to lead. Our strengths will enable us to be healthier. Let’s lead with our strengths while strengthening our weaknesses.

 

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Our Commitments Should Be Our Confession Booths

Jerri discusses holding back in your commitment. Why do we believe it’s okay to hold back in our commitments? When the opposite is needed to keep our commitments healthier and equal. Our responsibilities should be our confession booths.

 

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Let’s Discuss When to Listen & When to Talk

Aziz discusses when to listen and when to talk. People tell us to listen more and talk less but we also need to know when to talk more and listen less. Both are meaningful techniques. We just need to know when to use each in an effective manner. Aziz will explain key moments to do both… Join The Discussion

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