People remain in endless draining relationships because they are misinformed. They have the wrong definitions of words that they frequently live by, like forgiveness, loyalty, trust, family, friends, and romantic Partnership. Forgiveness is wishing someone the best when they harmed you, not reconciliation. Commitment starts with self. A person must have standards, morals, and principles…
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Let’s hope everyone woke up today, ready to be a LoveSnobs. We eat, sleep, drink, and live Love. We waked up honor to have life and encouraged us to live in the Love we can give and the Love we can receive. We know it sounds like we are high and in the ’70s, but…
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We sit watching televisions show after televisions show, reading books after books, having discussions with one person after another. The common theme is as humans; we can’t trust each other. Are we prepared? We continue to see great relationships as protecting another from the truth, to apologize when the truth surfaces. We claim we lie…
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We tend to tell people that Trauma is a part of who we are, like a scar that can’t heal—more like a right to do traumatic things to other people. Trauma isn’t us. We have traumatic experiences, but we have a choice not to be our Trauma. We have great times in life, and we…
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Do the people around you inspire you? If the answer is “no,” why aren’t you? Wake up, not just to breathe but to exhale so others can inhale. Our inability to be satisfied in our relationships is the cause of so many sad and depressed people. We can say it is them and take the…
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Do relationships have universal rules? The LoveSnobs answer is yes. We all fear our relationships not being unique, so we can maintain control over setting the standards. But, universal rules don’t mean each connection isn’t unique. It does mean there are signs we all should follow when starting equal and healthier personal relationships. Let’s…
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When someone deceives us, our hearts harden, and minds start deceiving others. We either push everyone away or pull people into our pain by causing them pain. We feel so stupid. We should have seen the signs. “Love is blind,” we tell ourselves. Well, The LoveSnobs would disagree. Love helps us see. Deception isn’t a…
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“I am sorry.” It is a phrase that is losing its value. So many believe those words fix the problem. They think” I am Sorry” is the humility necessary to build back trust. It is a start, but humility comes with the vulnerability that must follow. The person you hurt will be angry. You must…
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If you aren’t ready to face the truth, you will accept a liar. If you aren’t ready to debate for common ground, you aren’t ready for commitment. If you are more focused on your well being, you aren’t prepared to say “I Love You.” But if you are ready to be a LoveSnob, then you…
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A classic mistake we make in relationships is limiting communication to spare emotions. Yes, it is essential not to be harmful with our words; our intent should never be to cause damage. But, as the old saying goes, “the truth hurts” not necessarily the terms. We search for someone or something to blame as a…
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