Mean “I Am Sorry”

Mean “I’m Sorry”

“I’m sorry.” It’s a phrase that’s losing its value.

So many of us believe those two words fix the problem — that “I’m sorry” is all the humility it takes to rebuild trust. It’s a start. But real humility comes with the vulnerability that has to follow.

The person you hurt is going to be angry. So you need words and the actions to match them — actions that slowly replace the hurt with trust. They’re going to doubt you. Understand why, and build the faith back up anyway.

Don’t say “I’m sorry” expecting to be met halfway. Don’t say it expecting help. Say “I’m sorry” because this person is worth having in your life. Apologize because you want to make amends — because you’re ready to put the needs of the relationship ahead of your own selfish desires.

Saying “I’m sorry” means you’re prepared to rectify the wrong by actually working toward what’s right.

The LoveSnobs

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The LoveSnobs

LoveSnobs are relationship builders by purpose. We want to live in a world where people are passionate about building relationships instead of just surviving relationships. Aziz & Jerri have been friends for 26 years, but that isn't what makes them qualified. What makes them qualified is their willingness to risk their relationship to hold each other accountable. AccountableLove is the daily practice of equal & healthier relationships and the foundation of our sessions. We have one on one, friendship & couple investment, accountable parenting, and six-week accountable group sessions. Our goal is to partner with our Builders to strengthen their relationship because that is our most vital support in the world.

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