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What Are Accountable Relationships?
A podcast about “What are Accountable Relationships?” The LoveSnobs dedicated an entire podcast to explain what it means to be in accountable relationships. We enter relationships for stability. The change we want in our relationships is a lack of change. We like friends and spouses who are dependable. People we can close our eyes around and believe will put our connection in the best place to succeed. Accountable Relationships provide that certainty. How can we go wrong when we have people who are in their relationships to give their best?
In this podcast, The LoveSnobs examine five aspects of being in Accountable relationships.
- Define Your Core: The LoveSnobs ask people to identify at least four core values they will never change regardless of the company they keep.
- Meet people Who share Your Core Values: Once you identify your four core values. Meet people who share those core values to build the foundations of your relationships.
- Do you have Common Goals: Discuss whether you have a common destination. We understand we may disagree on how to get there but are we trying to settle down in the same place.
- Establish a Commitment: Once you define your core values, meet people who share those core values, and Discuss common goals. It is time to build the commitment. Establish a life plan together. Define what it means to be your friend or spouse. Plan for the future and start creating the future everyone agreed to develop.
- Start Building the Life yall Agreed to Build: As mentioned in the previous bulletin point, start building toward the agreed-upon destination. Establish roles, organize the plan, and start acting on making it a reality.
Remember being in Accountable Relationships is surround by purpose. Purpose gives our lives meaning and allows us to be a part of something greater than ourselves. So, What Are Accountable Relationships? Listen to this podcast, and it will answer that question.
Join The Discussion. Listen, Learn, and Apply!
Accountable Friends Go Beyond The Years
“Accountable Friends Go Beyond The Years” is a Message on the Move about Accountable Friendships. We watch movie after movie illustrating the counting of the years. But, years (time) can make us or break us. When we call someone our friend, the way we spend the time together validates that title. Jerri explains that very point.
Jerri has been watching a show about friends going through their life experiences together. The series highlights the ups and downs, what is say and what’s not say, but it’s the same narrative. Someone keeps a secret, the secret gets explored, friends are not talking, and the friends use distance to start speaking again. They never honestly discuss the root cause of why they didn’t share the secret or the importance of sharing. The drama and lack of explanation make for good television. Is it how we should conduct our relationships in real life?
Jerri’s answer to that question is “No!” So, She decided to have a brief message highlighting some essential questions we should ask and answer to be accountable friends.
- Why Are We Friends?
- What Is Our Foundation?
- How To Build A Better Foundation?
Watch the Video, Call some friends up, and start working toward becoming Accountable Friends.
Identifying Who Has A Superiority Complex In Our Relationships
“Identifying who has a superiority complex in our relationships.” In this podcast, The LoveSnobs explains, “What it means to have a Superiority Complex in our relationships?” We illustrate why it is crucial to it as a problem. As well as determine if you, your spouse, or friends suffer from this infliction. We give examples from our lives, movies, life, etc. Each example will provide our listeners further clarity on the topic. As a result, they will start reflecting on themselves as well as their relationships.
One example, The LoveSnobs reference is the movie “Something Borrowed.” We illustrate how movies paint the antagonist as the outgoing, go-getter who gets what they want—in contrast, painting the protagonist as the silent, introverted pushover who hopes to have the courage to go after what they want in life. We ask our listeners/viewers, Who indeed has a Superiority Complex?
The other points, The LoveSnobs, discuss are:
- The damaging effect of a superiority complex on our relationships
- Why it’s essential to lead with principle over emotions
- how not walking away is one of the biggest problems
- and more
So enjoy the podcast “Identifying who has a superiority complex in our relationships.” and Listen, Learn, and Apply.
Let’s Discuss Accountable Relationships
Let’s discuss Accountable Relationships. Aziz discusses what it takes to be in Accountable Relationships. He explains the importance of choosing the best spouse and friends to create the right environment to raise children. In this Messages On The Move, Aziz will explain the significance of aligned core values.
Spouses:
When picking a spouse, it is essential to share core values. As The LoveSnobs mentioned in many videos before. Core Values are the foundation of all our relationships. With a spouse, they are critical in building a home. Two people are entwining their family, friends, and sometimes children. So, having core values that align increases the likelihood that everyone in both people’s lives will integrate seamlessly. This assures less strain on the partnership, increasing the chance to be in Accountable Relationships.
Friends:
As mentioned in the paragraph above, Core Values are necessary for any relationship to flourish. A friendship isn’t as intimate as a spousal connection, but it is close. Picking the right friends is the difference between putting the right or wrong address in a GPS. They are our advisors. Friends can point us in the right direction or add drama to our lives. Building your friendships based on your core values will be a step toward being in Accountable Relationships.
Children:
One of the signs of a great parent is their ability to establish a great support system. Family is fantastic but having a supportive spouse/co-parent and friends increases the likelihood that we will have all the tools to be a present parent. When everyone has similar core values, the child or children have standards and concentrated directions. Ensuring the children will have strong character and self-confidence. Having Accountable Relationships before having children is ideal, but building them for our children’s future is vital.
Aziz explains the value of Accountable Relationships further in the video ” Let’s Discuss Accountable Relationships” below. So, enjoy the Message on the Move and Listen, Learn, and Apply.
By The LoveSnobs
Welcome To Season Four Of The AccountableLove Podcast
Welcome to season four of The AccountableLove Podcast. Season three was all about “Being The Adult In The Room” and holding people accountable in their relationships. The theme of season 4 will be ” Let’s Be Clear Here.” The LoveSnobs chose the title “Let’s Be Clear Here” because our relationships would be chaotic without clarity. In season 4, we will challenge people to explain what they bring and receive from their relationships. Asking our guests to give us four core values they take everywhere they go. In Our Sessions, The LoveSnobs ask all their builders to identify their core values. Listening to podcasts will give the listeners insight into our sessions.
Throughout season four, the LoveSnobs will also break down various topics: What are Accountable relationships, the importance of leaning into our relationships, and How Superiority Complexes Effect Relationships, to name a few. Giving further clarity to relationship topics people may have a hard time putting into words.
In this particular discussion, The LoveSnobs welcome all our listeners back to season 4 of the AccountableLove Podcast. They also give them a taste of what’s to come by clarifying the importance of transparency in relationships.
So Join The Discussion and Listen, Learn, and Apply.
Don’t Start Any Connection Through Pain
“Don’t Start Any Connection Through Pain” is a message on the move about building connections on pain. Pain is an easy connection for people because everyone has experienced pain. Joy is difficult because many people have not defined what joy is to them.
Aziz breaks down why starting any relationship through pain can create a spiral effect. He questions “why a person has to understand your pain to connect with you.” He explains, the main focus when entering any relationships should be to receive and bring Joy, period.
Connecting On Pain
When we meet someone new, are we identifying with them because they understand all our hardships? Or are we identifying with them because we believe they will enhance our life? Too many of us connect with people who share our past pain and fewer people who better our future. The whole point of building a new connection is to create a quality of life.
Connecting On Joy
Joy is something most want, but few have the discipline to achieve it. Let’s connect with people because they can provide us happiness. How? Make lifetime plans with your friends and spouses. Don’t destroy the relationships with pain from your past. Look forward! There is a difference between communicating to heal pain and connecting on pain.
I Choose Joy
In the video below, Aziz explains how he chooses joy. He only sees the pleasure he can add and receive in his relationships. When people focus on improving each other’s lives, they enjoy being in each other’s lives.
Think About
At the end of the video, Aziz asks all the viewers to think about his lesson. Our relationships are essential, and how we are building our foundation will determine their strength. Don’t Start Any Connection Through Pain. It’s a weak foundation. Enjoy the Video. Don’t just watch this message on the move. Learn from it.
By TheLoveSnobs
Our Relationships Are A Corporation
Our Relationships are a Corporation! Aziz explains how our Accountable relationships (spouses, Friends, and Children) as our corporation. People chase money but forget about their relationships. Well, if we start looking at our relationships as a corporation. We will start valuing our investments in our relationships.
You & Your Spouse Are CEOs
When entering a romantic partnership, we should see them as someone we build a lifelong commitment to. We are merging friends, children, and families. Our life becomes their life. If we can see them as lifetime partners, we should be committing to them.
Friends Are Our Investors
First off, our romantic partners are investors because they are building and sustaining the corporation. But, our friends the investors. They are not tied to us romantically, but they have a lifetime stake in the success dreams. They want to see our corporation succeed not just because they are our friends also because when we nurtured, they nurtured.
Our Children Are Our Legacy
We look around us, and we have picked the right CEO, the best investors, now we are ready to pass on the Legacy. We have children so they can heir all the work we gave to the world. We want them to have the blueprint to finding the right CEO, the best investors, and the perfect corporation.
The LoveSnobs want everyone to see their relationships as their corporation, and building Accountable Relationships will make for a more productive life.
Aziz Breaks it down further in the video below. Watch it and start building your corporation with Accountable Relationships.
Women, What Do You Mean By Broke Man?
In the latest Relationship Messages on the Move: Woman, what do you mean by broke man? In the video below, Aziz asks women what do they mean by not wanting a broke man. He had this discussion with several women, listened to women online, and read several posts and articles about women being tired of a “Broke Man.” As a result, Aziz asks three questions and explains where he agrees.
1) Is It About A Financial Equal?
2) Is It About Financial Dependency?
3) Is it Them Being broken?
Is A “Broke Man” About A Financial Equal?
Are women saying they need someone who can match their financial success? Women who have rolled up their sleeves and build their financial means and want someone else who can carry their own financially. As a result, they don’t want someone to take care of them and don’t want to take care of anyone else.
Is It About A Financial Dependency?
Are women saying they want someone to take care of them financially? They want a man willing to fund their lifestyle and work hard while they play harder.
Is It About Being Broken?
Are women saying they don’t want a broken man? For instance, A man who comes into the relationship with bags of issues. Past cheating habits, lack of ambition, inability to express themselves, or no trust in women (Trust issues).
Aziz explains if it is the Latter, he understands.
Watch the video and tell us what you think.
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Surrounding Yourself With Great People Is Self-Help
Surrounding yourself with great people is self-help. Self-help is discussed on social media, blogs and has become a relationship genre, but we can’t understand ourselves without interacting with other people. Surrounding yourself with great people is self-help. You are helping yourself with great friends, a great spouse, and great children. Ultimately you are a better “you” when surrounded by great people.
Other People Cover Our Blind Stops:
In the video below, Aziz explains how building a village will increase the likelihood of improving self-awareness. He breaks down how others cover our blind spots. We can’t look in front and behind us at the same time. We need people to express our bad habits and reassure our good ones. How can we genuinely evaluate ourselves with two sets of eyes? Multiple eys are better.
You Decide Who Is in Your Life:
As adults, we decide who is in our daily lives. When having the wrong people in our lives, Aziz states we start to see the world through our companies’ eyes. If they complain, we find ourselves whining or complaining about them complaining. It would be best if we always remembered self-help means keeping the right company in the present. Let’s build a group of people on the same page and have positive outlooks on life because multiple eyes are only effective when they are not ineffective.
Are You In Accountable Relationships?
When we have Accountable Relationships, everyone is comfortable with lift one another. We have challenging discussions until their resolution, discuss anything with conviction, and have the security of knowing there are always people in our lives rooting for us. Why would we be worried about building ourselves when we have built a team?
Surrounding yourself with great people is self-help. You are helping yourself with great friends, a great spouse, and great children.
Enjoy the Video! It would give you further clarity.
Jerri AccountableLove Relationship Weather Report
Relationship Weather Report.
Jerri has an AccountableLove Relationship Weather Report. In our relationships, storms will come, but it should not be normal practice to weather storms. We should be playing in the snow, not allowing it to bury our relationships. Jerri will explain how Snow Storm 2021 should bring your relationships closer, not make us cold. So, Listen, Learn, and Apply because this AccountableLove Relationship Weather Report is a reminder that we control how we deal with the storms.
Building Accountable Relationships
