Most Recent Episodes
What Is The Power of Community
What is the power of building community? Jerri explains the importance of building a community through your relationships. In our society, we separate our friends from our spouses and children. What if we started to see our relationships as one big community? We would begin to connect with like minds and the same hearts.
When we have a village mentality, we start seeing us instead of me. Jerri explains how believing in a community is the key to Accountable Relationships. We are stronger when we have support; without support, we are only treading water. So, What is the power in building community? Watch the video, and Jerri will answer that question.
Relationships Are A Faith
We forget that relationships are a FAITH. So, we lose track of faith and try to control what we can’t. All the wondering, the doubts, and the insecurities. We spend so much time thinking about what can happen negatively and not enough time remembering what is proven. Aziz reminds us that relationships are a FAITH and the key to healthier and equal relationships surrounding us.
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Proactive vs Reactive Love
Let’s set the stage for this podcast discussion by explaining what we mean by Proactive vs Reactive Love. When we say Proactive Love, we are discussing AccountableLove. This is a love built from setting a foundation with principles your relationships are built on. The agreements (principle) allow two or more people to walk towards each other, even when they are not at their best. Proactive Love is signing a contract with words and making them a reality with daily actions. It’s the acknowledgment, I am not perfect, but that will not stop me from striving for excellence; Love.
Reactive Love is the Love we always hear people promoting. The entitlement of secrets, yet the promise of loyalty. The “if you love me, you will accept that I will think selfishly.” Yet, this Love expects people, honorable people, to be there to help dishonorable people through selfish decisions. Reactive Love is “I said it in the heat of the moment,” “the professional apologizers,” “the I feel worst than you feel for something I did to you,” Love. The idea that Love is accepting people coming up short. What type of Love do you want, Proactive vs Reactive Love? The choice is still ours!
The LoveSnobs decided to Vodcast on Facebook Live for the first time. It was a different experience, but we were excited to try it.
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We All Want Relationships
When we hear people say, “I don’t want a relationship,” pain is the thought that accompanies that statement. They are unconsciously saying, “I lost faith in my ability to connect with others.” How do we build our faith back? Aziz discusses how We All Want Relationships.
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Think of the Home Before You Say “Yes” Outside of it.
Taking responsibility for our agreements is essential. A part of taking responsibility for action is being our best, even when we feel our worst. We should never bite off more than we can chew because it will cause us to choke. So, when prioritizing our relationships, we should be honest about everything we are carrying outside those relationships. Jerri discusses the importance of thinking of the home before you say “Yes” outside of it.
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Christine with The LoveSnobs (Vodcast)
Christine Joins the LoveSnobs to discuss being the adult in the room, past relationships, present relationships, relationship life in the pandemic, and of course, AccountableLove.
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Weaknesses Hurt Our Relationships
Aziz discusses leading with your weaknesses in our relationships. Shortcomings should never make us leaders—our ability to know when to follow someone else’s strengths, which allows us to lead. Our strengths will enable us to be healthier. Let’s lead with our strengths while strengthening our weaknesses.
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Searching For Reasons To Stay (Vodcast)
The LoveSnobs are at it again. This time they discuss why people search for reasons to stay in unhealthy relationships. We all have been there. Justifying “why to stay” when all the arrows point at all the reasons “we should leave.” Well, the LoveSnobs challenge you to have better reasons for staying if not leave.
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Our Commitments Should Be Our Confession Booths
Jerri discusses holding back in your commitment. Why do we believe it’s okay to hold back in our commitments? When the opposite is needed to keep our commitments healthier and equal. Our responsibilities should be our confession booths.
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Let’s Discuss When to Listen & When to Talk
Aziz discusses when to listen and when to talk. People tell us to listen more and talk less but we also need to know when to talk more and listen less. Both are meaningful techniques. We just need to know when to use each in an effective manner. Aziz will explain key moments to do both… Join The Discussion