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Codependency Destroys Relationships
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“Codependency Destroys Relationships” is a podcast about addiction in our relationships. We don’t discuss codependency often enough. We are more worried about not looking insensitive. But, it isn’t cruel to want healthier relationships. The LoveSnobs couldn’t promote accountability without addressing addiction. Therefore, they will not standby and watch them destroy our relationships. During the podcast, The LoveSnobs examined the blame game. They explained how passing the blame will not help with solutions. Yet, they believe accountability will. Putting everything out in the open will begin the process toward healing. Everyone must accept the role they play in the condition. We do have a choice of whether it will be a positive or negative role. Codependency Destroys Relationships is a podcast starting the discussion. Beginning the healing process. Listen, Learn, And Enjoy!
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The LoveSnobs are two friends who are tired of people saying they wanted Accountable Relationships. Yet, they lacked road maps to acquire them. Therefore, The Lovesnobs started “The AccountableLove Podcast,” which does just that. Creates a road map for people by defining terms, discussing building strong principles, and inviting everyday people to discuss building Accountable Relationships. The LoveSnobs believe Love Is A Group Journey. As a result, our journey is to build healthier, supportive, Loving Relationships. Join The Discussion! Listen, Learn and Enjoy
Codependency Destroys Relationships
Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 37:50 — 52.0MB)
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“Codependency Destroys Relationships” is a podcast about addiction in our relationships. We don’t discuss codependency often enough. We are more worried about not looking insensitive. But, it isn’t cruel to want healthier relationships. The LoveSnobs couldn’t promote accountability without addressing addiction. Therefore, they will not standby and watch them destroy our relationships. During the podcast, The LoveSnobs examined the blame game. They explained how passing the blame will not help with solutions. Yet, they believe accountability will. Putting everything out in the open will begin the process toward healing. Everyone must accept the role they play in the condition. We do have a choice of whether it will be a positive or negative role. Codependency Destroys Relationships is a podcast starting the discussion. Beginning the healing process. Listen, Learn, And Enjoy!
The LoveSnobs are two friends who are tired of people saying they wanted Accountable Relationships. Yet, they lacked road maps to acquire them. Therefore, The Lovesnobs started “The AccountableLove Podcast,” which does just that. Creates a road map for people by defining terms, discussing building strong principles, and inviting everyday people to discuss building Accountable Relationships. The LoveSnobs believe Love Is A Group Journey. As a result, our journey is to build healthier, supportive, Loving Relationships. Join The Discussion! Listen, Learn and Enjoy
Clarity
People remain in endless draining relationships because they are misinformed. They have the wrong definitions of words that they frequently live by, like forgiveness, loyalty, trust, family, friends, and romantic Partnership. Forgiveness is wishing someone the best when they harmed you, not reconciliation. Commitment starts with self. A person must have standards, morals, and principles before they can attach the word “loyalty” to another person. If someone can’t refine your great attributes, they aren’t worth being around. Trust is something given in one aspect and earned in another. You aren’t going to give a person access to your bank account, keys to your house, or invite them in your circle without familiarity. Still, you have to open yourself up verbally, emotionally, and spiritually to gain that familiarity with a person indeed. Family is a bloodline you’re born in, doesn’t mean you are obligated to put up with their disrespect just because you’ll share blood. They need to respect you or be at a distance. Now, your friends are people that should reflect your ideals. They should share your core values such as honesty, loyalty, understandings, trust, and some more goodness. If you communicate freely, then friends aren’t you’ll title. Romantic Partnership is two people who share a spiritual connection that promises to keep their eyes locked for eternity, heart’s beating until death, and souls passed for generations. The clarity in all those areas will result in a fruitful, healthy existence!
We All Should Be LoveSnobs
Let’s hope everyone woke up today, ready to be a LoveSnobs.
We eat, sleep, drink, and live Love. We waked up honor to have life and encouraged us to live in the Love we can give and the Love we can receive. We know it sounds like we are high and in the ’70s, but this is the reality of being surrounded by like-minds and same-hearts. We wake up everyday understanding that we pleaded a responsibility to inspire our Love in the people we love. We accepted they asked to give that same Love back. Everyone has the same destination, which is to build and maintain equal and healthy relationships. Before anyone believes when we say “Love,” we mean smiles, clowns, and laughs. No, we also mean patiently having discussions (arguing) to get on the same page, helping someone resolve an issue, saying what needs to be said regardless of the immediate outcome. We mean preparing to go through life with people with different ideas and finding common ground to walk through life together.
We are LoveSnobs. We believe in AccountableLove. A Love that means honoring your words with actions and expecting the same in return. We understand that people fall short, but we hope to stand tall. We a passionate about teaching and living Love. So we wake up attached to a purpose that will scare us at times, push us to our limits, and take every inch of strength we may have. Be we will continue to open our eyes and believe excellent communication, lifetime connections, and togetherness is possible because we live it in our lives daily.
So we hope everyone woke up with purpose because life should be meaningful, and nothing is more inspiring than building relationships you enjoy waking up to and fighting for daily.
Are We Prepared?
We sit watching televisions show after televisions show, reading books after books, having discussions with one person after another. The common theme is as humans; we can’t trust each other.
Are we prepared?
We continue to see great relationships as protecting another from the truth, to apologize when the truth surfaces. We claim we lie to our Love ones because it is best. If it is best, why are we apologizing? Their pain or our inability to provide choice. Why don’t we believe that people can handle honesty? Is it because their eyes fill with water at the moment or because they give you that empty stare of shock or is it because we think so little of ourselves that we believe they would leave because we would? Whatever the reason, we continue to paint the art of lying as a masterpiece of Love.
Are we prepared?
To look at the people, we care about the most and share our darkest thoughts, our most significant faults, our everything. We ask them to love us for our ability while understanding we will never duplicate the same mistakes. Our capability to think dark but remain light, our dedication to devoting every truth we have to offer. But, we continue to be scared of the outcome in our heads, disregarding our hearts.
Are We Prepared?
To have relationships that have Love as a faith and not an emotion, words, actions, but a combination of all three workings in sync—pledging a life of transparency, patience, and selflessness. Let’s see Love as maturing into togetherness. Not this search for finding yourself in others but defining a part of who you are with others. Love is a Group Journey, so if we “Aren’t prepared” to merge, stop saying, “I Love You.”
“We Aren’t Prepared” to relate until common ground is the top priority, we are having honest discussions, and we are searching for the truth in each other.
Are We Prepared?
Or are we going continue to believe deception is the preparation?
Mahagony & Aziza Join the LoveSnobs
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Mahagony & Aziza Join the LoveSnobs is a podcast about accountability and Love. It is also about how to maintain responsibility and Love in every relationship around us. The LoveSnobs invited Mahogany B. (Mo’Art productions) and Aziza to talk about AccountableLove. Mahagony and Aziza both describe their upbringing and how it affected how they viewed Love. Funny, they were both given similar messages growing up but had different ideas about Love. The LoveSnobs acknowledged that very fact during the podcast. The Group also discusses the state of Love in our society in present times. Mahagony & Aziza Join the LoveSnobs is four people discussing relationships and Love. Four people who are courageous enough to attempt to strengthen the faith of Love. Learn, Listen, and Enjoy!
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The LoveSnobs are two friends who are tired of people saying they wanted Accountable Relationships. Yet, they lacked road maps to acquire them. Therefore, The Lovesnobs started “The AccountableLove Podcast,” which does just that. Creates a road map for people by defining terms, discussing building strong principles, and inviting everyday people to discuss building Accountable Relationships. The LoveSnobs believe Love Is A Group Journey. As a result, our journey is to build healthier, supportive, Loving Relationships. Join The Discussion! Listen, Learn and Enjoy
Mahagony & Aziza Join the LoveSnobs
Podcast: Play in new window | Download (Duration: 56:03 — 77.0MB)
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Mahagony & Aziza Join the LoveSnobs is a podcast about accountability and Love. It is also about how to maintain responsibility and Love in every relationship around us. The LoveSnobs invited Mahogany B. (Mo’Art productions) and Aziza to talk about AccountableLove. Mahagony and Aziza both describe their upbringing and how it affected how they viewed Love. Funny, they were both given similar messages growing up but had different ideas about Love. The LoveSnobs acknowledged that very fact during the podcast. The Group also discusses the state of Love in our society in present times. Mahagony & Aziza Join the LoveSnobs is four people discussing relationships and Love. Four people who are courageous enough to attempt to strengthen the faith of Love. Learn, Listen, and Enjoy!
The LoveSnobs are two friends who are tired of people saying they wanted Accountable Relationships. Yet, they lacked road maps to acquire them. Therefore, The Lovesnobs started “The AccountableLove Podcast,” which does just that. Creates a road map for people by defining terms, discussing building strong principles, and inviting everyday people to discuss building Accountable Relationships. The LoveSnobs believe Love Is A Group Journey. As a result, our journey is to build healthier, supportive, Loving Relationships. Join The Discussion! Listen, Learn and Enjoy
Trauma isn’t Us….
We tend to tell people that Trauma is a part of who we are, like a scar that can’t heal—more like a right to do traumatic things to other people. Trauma isn’t us. We have traumatic experiences, but we have a choice not to be our Trauma. We have great times in life, and we have horrible times as well. Why do we choose to remain in pain as opposed to the joy of great times?
Did we stop believing that we have some control over the outcome? Let’s remove the bars before our relationships suffer. Our time on this earth is to preserve, pass the nasty people we encounter by finding people that Love us. Suppose you think Loving people aren’t out there. You’re mistaken. They exist. We have to set standards, show Love to attract Love, and eliminate those that prefer drama over Love. But first, we must become the Love we expect.
Becoming the Love we expect will take talking about the Trauma as an illness we WILL overcome. It will take us understanding the experience that occurred (no matter how horrible), but we want something more exceptional. Will it be easy? Not at all. Is it worth the fight? We have to decide that for ourselves. The LoveSnobs believe every person should be in a positive, supportive, equal relationship, but YOU must have faith in that belief before it becomes actual. Remember, our Trauma isn’t us, but our character evaluates it.
Relationship Should Inspire Us….
Do the people around you inspire you? If the answer is “no,” why aren’t you?
Wake up, not just to breathe but to exhale so others can inhale. Our inability to be satisfied in our relationships is the cause of so many sad and depressed people. We can say it is them and take the easy way out. Or we can look in the mirror and start a challenging discussion regarding why the people around us don’t inspire us.
We see too many lonely people with a phone full of people to call but not one person to call on. We see other lonely people with significant support but choosing to do it all alone. Listen, the most significant thing we can do in life is building a stable personal support system. We don’t have to have a high IQ; we don’t have to have lots of money, we don’t even have to have a unique skill set. All we have to do is search for people that inspire us to be our best. Inspiration breeds passion, passion breeds devotion, devotion breeds dedication, and dedication will lead to honesty and trust, which is the foundation of Love.
We talk about the shortness of life, yet we live in our heads, fearful of our hearts. Walk up to the people you Love, sit them down, and start the uncomfortable discussion regarding your lack of inspiration to wake up every morning. Explain to them what you discovered by looking in the mirror. Ask them if you inspire them. Don’t allow them off the hook with a phrase like “no one should look to others for inspiration because it is within us.” Ask them to get an honest answer. If their answer is “no.” Start indeed examining why friendship is no longer about bringing the best out of each other. If the answer is “yes,” Still explore why they don’t inspire you.
We should want to open our eyes and have the faith of inspiring and positive influential relationships. If we don’t, what is the purpose of relating?
The LoveSnobs
Relationships Have Universal Rules….
Do relationships have universal rules? The LoveSnobs answer is yes. We all fear our relationships not being unique, so we can maintain control over setting the standards. But, universal rules don’t mean each connection isn’t unique. It does mean there are signs we all should follow when starting equal and healthier personal relationships.
Let’s start with Honest communication. What do we mean by Honest communication? It is sharing your thoughts openly, whether we are comfortable, fearful of conflict, or believe it’s impossible to find common ground; start the discussions, and finalize the outcomes. Relationships grow from seeds to plants by shining lights on problems, watering the soul with transparency, and soiling the foundation by taking pride in using your Love ones like people use prayer. Surrendering to a life of fearlessness will be refreshing.
Every relationship should center around faith. Why are we in any relationship when we lack confidence in the relationship? If we can identify someone who has a gambling problem by their inability to stop placing bad bets. We must use the same logic to identify someone is bad for us when they continuously place us in bad situations. We must always remember faith is a product of believing in the future based on evidence collected from the past and studied in the present. Don’t spend your life placing bad bets on people who don’t return value.
Another universal rule is the maintenance of consistent practices. We all may want spontaneity, but what allows a longterm relationship to flourish are excellent habits. We must find people that not only enjoy dancing but want to be exceptional dancers. They understand excellence takes practice—long debates, humbling truths, and working in unison. We must battle with when it’s time to lead and when to follow, ensuring we can perform anytime we are called upon.
We need universal rules to teach relationships, Love, and quality of life. So, do relationships have global standards. Yes! But, people try to break them to prove they are different. They never see that relationships are about what we have in common.