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What will cause you to walk away or stay & fight
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Mistakes will occur in every relationship. Some are misdemeanors, and some are felonies; all will impact the state of our relationships. So, The LoveSnobs want to know, “What will cause you to walk away or stay & fight?
Joy Is Important
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When discussing relationships, people get so caught up in a relationship’s responsibilities; they forget what brings them joy. Joy has to be prioritized. If Love is the foundation of your relationships, Joy is the appliance, furniture, and decorations that make a home worth living in.
Why Do We Show Up?
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Stop! Ask yourself, why am I in all my relationships? Is it guilt, duty, companionship, comfort, or Love…The LoveSnobs ask their panelist why do they show up in their relationships.
Are We Being Specific In Our Relationships?
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When In/entering relationships, are you being specific about what you want from your relationships? Are you asking what they specifically want from them? Are we assuming or discussing? The LoveSnobs will discuss the importance of being specific in all our relationships.
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What Is The Power of Community
What is the power of building community? Jerri explains the importance of building a community through your relationships. In our society, we separate our friends from our spouses and children. What if we started to see our relationships as one big community? We would begin to connect with like minds and the same hearts.
When we have a village mentality, we start seeing us instead of me. Jerri explains how believing in a community is the key to Accountable Relationships. We are stronger when we have support; without support, we are only treading water. So, What is the power in building community? Watch the video, and Jerri will answer that question.
“Am I Truly Living?” (18 Questions)
Am I Truly Living
Think back to being a child and fighting so hard for responsibility. Think forward to your body failing your mind and going back to infantry, but with everything behind you. Now, look at your life.
1) Are you embracing the responsibility you once fought so hard for?
2) Are you spending enough time building a confident, consistent circle around you, or are you taking seconds, minutes, and hours for granted?
3) Are you all the possibilities that you once dreamt you would be?
4) Do you find yourself waking up, setting goals, and acting on them?
5) Are you somebody that’s became admired by those you’ve admired?
6) Do you find yourself seeing the absolute in all the things that can go wrong or the totality of things can go right?
7) Do you tell yourself that “in reality” people lie, or do you tell yourself people are naturally honest?
8) How many times do you go to bed thinking things about all that went wrong during the day or could have gone wrong?
9) Do you find yourself agreeing with people complaining about the world and disagreeing with the person that’s trying to change the world?
10) Do you believe that we need Evil to identify Good, or do you think that you feel the feeling of good and strive to continue it naturally?
11) Do you think that when you know you’re doing good deeds, it takes away its value, or, when you talk about it, it encourages others to perform good acts?
12) Do you see a devilish act happen and try to act like you don’t see it, or do you call the person out on their actions and risk worse happening to you?
13) Do you consider yourself as honest when consequences are more severe?
14) Do you work to be someone people will consider fair or someone you feel good about?
15) Do you look a person in the eyes and naturally wonder what they are thinking of you or what you’re thinking, period?
16) When it comes to looks, are you harder on the same sex or, opposite?
17) When someone does something better than you, do you naturally feel joy for them or sadness because you feel less?
18) Do you find yourself saying, “I don’t know” more than yes or no?
Ask yourself, “Am I truly living?”
Relationships Are A Faith
We forget that relationships are a FAITH. So, we lose track of faith and try to control what we can’t. All the wondering, the doubts, and the insecurities. We spend so much time thinking about what can happen negatively and not enough time remembering what is proven. Aziz reminds us that relationships are a FAITH and the key to healthier and equal relationships surrounding us.
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If They Wanted Their Friend, They Wouldn’t Be With You
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What is Monogamy? If we are always worried about someone leaving or cheating? Though friendships can become gateways to a romantic partnership or sexual encounters, do we want to allow fear to destroy the character of the people we are with?
Proactive vs Reactive Love
Let’s set the stage for this podcast discussion by explaining what we mean by Proactive vs Reactive Love. When we say Proactive Love, we are discussing AccountableLove. This is a love built from setting a foundation with principles your relationships are built on. The agreements (principle) allow two or more people to walk towards each other, even when they are not at their best. Proactive Love is signing a contract with words and making them a reality with daily actions. It’s the acknowledgment, I am not perfect, but that will not stop me from striving for excellence; Love.
Reactive Love is the Love we always hear people promoting. The entitlement of secrets, yet the promise of loyalty. The “if you love me, you will accept that I will think selfishly.” Yet, this Love expects people, honorable people, to be there to help dishonorable people through selfish decisions. Reactive Love is “I said it in the heat of the moment,” “the professional apologizers,” “the I feel worst than you feel for something I did to you,” Love. The idea that Love is accepting people coming up short. What type of Love do you want, Proactive vs Reactive Love? The choice is still ours!
The LoveSnobs decided to Vodcast on Facebook Live for the first time. It was a different experience, but we were excited to try it.
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We All Want Relationships
When we hear people say, “I don’t want a relationship,” pain is the thought that accompanies that statement. They are unconsciously saying, “I lost faith in my ability to connect with others.” How do we build our faith back? Aziz discusses how We All Want Relationships.
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