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AccountableLove Is A Practice

The soul of any relationship is more than a heart or an emotional attachment. It is a promise to maintain a commitment by investing in the best of us. AccountableLove Is A Practice. Two or more people, signing up for a cause, a purpose, a faith. A committed, Accountable relationship. Based on an agreement to come together to establish a foundation while building bricks. AccountableLove never means settle for “Being Human.” Instead, it’s deciding to be the best of humanity. Showing Love with every fiber of our existence.
AccountableLove is the practice of identifying if Love is truly within your grasp or just a falsified tale passed from generation to generation. How do you know AccountableLove is Love’s identifier? Try it! Look someone in the eye and start the journey honoring your promises and asking them to keep theirs.

 

Pros, Cons, Agreements, Deal Breakers, Beliefs, and Principles! AccountableLove asks, “Who has time for deception, secrets, boredom, and mystery?” Only those who choose drama and call it Love. Those who believe they do not have a choice to be Love. So, they settle for the thrill’s emotional roller coaster instead of the consistency of maintaining a standard. Keeping Love’s heartbeat beating. Accountability is the exercise of bringing out the greatest in us. Love is the destination of traveling with a purpose. Love Is A Group Journey, so let’s get started. Remember, AccountableLove is a Practice!

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Maintain Your Self Respect and Leave Your Ego at The Door

When we say ego, we are not talking about the psychology term coined by Sigmund Freud. We are talking about ego the way we use the word when discussing our relationship. Ego being short for egotistical. So, In This, Let’s Talk Relationships with The LoveSnobs discussion, we will discuss being egotistical vs. Having self-respect. Do we truly understand the difference?

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A Story of Compassion

A Story of Compassion

This is a story of compassion!
This morning at the gym, I saw a man with one arm coming out of the pool; the first emotion was Compassion, but then I thought that is worse than laughing. The vanity of me to believe this man wanted my Compassion.  Just because he looked like less didn’t mean he wasn’t more. Compassion should be saved for a person in tears at a funeral,  a mother that just gave birth to a still-born child or a person who lost everything in a fire; not someone (with one arm) that got out of their bed to go for a swim early in the morning.  He greeted me with a smile and a “Hello” like many I passed that morning; yet, he’s the only person I narrowed down to a disability. We truly believe we are better people for empathizing before we sit down to hear the story. Everyone wants to be treated as an equal, but we’re quick to subtract a minus sign leaving other people negative once we assume them victims.  He probably wouldn’t trade his life for mine; he could have given an arm so someone he Loves can live; we create the worse in a situation that can be better. At that moment, I was everything I despise. I wasn’t reflecting on the person I want others to mirror. I looked him in the eyes and said, “Have a nice day,” seeing myself in his eyes and realizing I was the one that was crippled! A Story of Compassion
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Mistresses Are Held Accountable

Who's At Fault

Who Is At Fault?

Who’s at Fault? Let’s talk about an Accountable relationship. We want mistresses held accountable for breaking into homes with the husband’s keys. We want to convict them for stress-free sex. Do we ever think? Our Husbands are deceiving these women. Can we fathom, they are spinning the same web of lies in two separated directions. Yet, the “heart involved mistresses” should do what wives are having a challenging time doing. We can debate if it’s easier to leave after ten years or one year? The answers will vary.

 

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The Debate Continues

People will say the wife was there first and the mistress should walk. Others would say the wife should allow her husband to see if the grass is truly greener and walk. Either way, both Women feel vested, territorial, and don’t want to be the ones to leave. Suppose we were discussing Accountable Relationships. The correct answer would be they both should walk. Accountable Relationships are about integrity, self-worth, and the sanctity of Love. Are we discussing those attributes?

Mistresses are blamed

Why Are We Staring at Each Other?

No, it’s about volleying accountability from one woman to the other. 

Wives: “You shouldn’t date a married man!” 

Mistresses: “If she were taking care of her husband, he wouldn’t be in my bed!” 

Wives: “You are low if you must break up a happy home!” 

Mistresses: “If your home was happy, I couldn’t be here to break it.” 

Isn’t there something wrong with that picture? 

Isn’t someone missing? The Husband

Yet, Mistresses are held Accountable! 

Women make it so easy. Instead of fighting to leave, they fight over men, blaming the women who fell into the same trap as the wive that came before them.

Yes, men are cry and apologize when they get caught. But until they are held accountable, the double dripping will continue.

 

Who’s at fault????

The one providing the “Blindfolds”

 

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Think of the Home Before You Say “Yes” Outside of it.

Taking responsibility for our agreements is essential. A part of taking responsibility for action is being our best, even when we feel our worst. We should never bite off more than we can chew because it will cause us to choke. So, when prioritizing our relationships, we should be honest about everything we are carrying outside those relationships. Jerri discusses the importance of thinking of the home before you say “Yes” outside of it.

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Christine Joins the LoveSnobs

Christine Joins the LoveSnobs to discuss being the adult in the room. As it’s customary for every first-time guest, The LoveSnobs asked Christine, “What does AccountableLove mean to you?” Once she answered the question, which starts every deeper discussion. Christine opened up about present, past, pandemic relationships. She discussed having her heartbreak, feeling alone while social distancing, reevaluating friendship, and most of all, still embracing the joy in life. Christine is on the west coast and The Lovesnobs on the east. So we would like to thank her for getting up early to discuss accountable relationships.  Listen to “Christine Joins The LoveSnobs,” and you will explore pieces of yourself in the process.

 

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The LoveSnobs are two friends that were tired of people saying they wanted accountable relationships but lacked a road map to acquire them. So, The AccountableLove Podcast does just that. It gives people a road map by defining terms, discussing building strong principles, and inviting everyday people to discuss building accountable relationships. The LoveSnobs believe Love Is A Group Journey, so let’s start your journey toward healthier, supportive, Loving Relationships.

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Christine with The LoveSnobs (Vodcast)

Christine Joins the LoveSnobs to discuss being the adult in the room, past relationships, present relationships, relationship life in the pandemic, and of course, AccountableLove.

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Weaknesses Hurt Our Relationships

Aziz discusses leading with your weaknesses in our relationships. Shortcomings should never make us leaders—our ability to know when to follow someone else’s strengths, which allows us to lead. Our strengths will enable us to be healthier. Let’s lead with our strengths while strengthening our weaknesses.

 

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Searching For Reasons To Stay

The LoveSnobs are at it again. This time they discuss why people are searching for reasons to stay in unhealthy relationships. We all have been there. Justifying “why to stay” when all the arrows point at all the reasons “we should leave.” Well, the LoveSnobs challenge you to have better reasons for staying if you do not want to leave. We can’t continue to stay in toxic relationships and call it “Love.” Let’s be honest with ourselves; it isn’t Love. It’s I, started building here, and I don’t want to start over again. Think about it like this; if you are building while someone is tearing down, what have you built. Are you getting anywhere? The bricks are not amounting to a home. It remains a vacant lot full of bricks. Why are we searching for reasons to stay? When we can build with people who are building too.  Check out the AccountableLove Podcast as The LoveSnobs explain further.

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The LoveSnobs are two friends that were tired of people saying they wanted accountable relationships but lacked a road map to acquire them. So, The AccountableLove Podcast does just that. It gives people a road map by defining terms, discussing building strong principles, and inviting everyday people to discuss building Accountable Relationships. The LoveSnobs believe Love Is A Group Journey, so let’s start your journey toward healthier, supportive, Loving Relationships.

 

Searching For Reasons To Stay
 

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Searching For Reasons To Stay (Vodcast)

The LoveSnobs are at it again. This time they discuss why people search for reasons to stay in unhealthy relationships. We all have been there. Justifying “why to stay” when all the arrows point at all the reasons “we should leave.” Well, the LoveSnobs challenge you to have better reasons for staying if not leave.

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