“Am I Truly Living?” (18 Questions)

Am I Truly Living

Think back to being a child, fighting so hard for responsibility. Now think forward to a day when your body fails your mind and you return to something like infancy — but with your whole life behind you.

Now look at your life  today, and ask yourself:

  • Are you embracing the responsibility you once fought so hard for?
  • Are you spending enough time building a confident, consistent circle around you — or are you taking the seconds, minutes, and hours for granted?
  • Are you all the possibilities you once dreamed you’d be?
  • Do you wake up, set goals, and act on them?
  • Have you become admired by the people you once admired?
  • Do you see everything that could go wrong, or everything that could go right?
  • Do you tell yourself that people naturally lie, or that people are naturally honest?
  • How many nights do you go to bed replaying everything that went wrong — or could have?
  • Do you find yourself agreeing with the people complaining about the world, and disagreeing with the person trying to change it?
  • Do you believe we need evil to recognize good — or do you feel what good feels like and naturally strive to continue it?
  • Do you think doing good quietly is the only “real” good, or that talking about it encourages others to do good too?
  • When you see a wrong being done, do you look away — or do you call it out, even at a risk to yourself?
  • Are you honest even when the consequences get more severe?
  • Do you work to be someone others consider fair, or someone you feel good about being?
  • Do you look a person in the eyes and wonder what they think of you, or what you think of them?
  • When it comes to looks, are you harder on your own sex or the opposite?
  • When someone does something better than you, do you feel joy for them, or sadness because you feel smaller?
  • Do you find yourself saying “I don’t know” more than yes or no?

Ask yourself, Am I truly living?

 

The LoveSnobs

The LoveSnobs

LoveSnobs are relationship builders by purpose. We want to live in a world where people are passionate about building relationships instead of just surviving relationships. Aziz & Jerri have been friends for 26 years, but that isn't what makes them qualified. What makes them qualified is their willingness to risk their relationship to hold each other accountable. AccountableLove is the daily practice of equal & healthier relationships and the foundation of our sessions. We have one on one, friendship & couple investment, accountable parenting, and six-week accountable group sessions. Our goal is to partner with our Builders to strengthen their relationship because that is our most vital support in the world.

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