Can we break up and remain friends is the question at hand. This question has many layers, but the short answer is “yes.” Two people can break up and remain friends. We (The LoveSnobs) will assume the next question will be, how? The follow-up question is where the layers exist. There are many variables to…
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Arguing is Healthy for our relationships. We tend to avoid arguments because we believe they will add stress and disrupt relationships (which can happen), but what if we start embracing conflict and get the desired outcome. What if we start seeing arguments as fighting for our relationships instead of against them. As a society, we…
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Why Are Everyday People Diagnosing Narcissistic Personality Disorder? If you have a TikTok account or watch Instagram reels, all down your feed are unqualified people diagnosing others with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. It’s like not going to the doctor because you googled symptoms. Let’s look at the definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Narcissistic Personality Disorder —…
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Are Accountable and Healthy Relationships A Priority? Prioritizing Our relationships is essential to a quality of life. Yet, many of us don’t know where to start. There are not enough hours in the day, something more glaring tends to arise, or our plates are full. So, how do we maintain the health of our relationships? …
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Secrets! Tell The Truth! It is perfectly “normal” to keep them, but it’s also normal to gossip, smoke cigarettes, and have poor relationships. Is our goal normal or healthy? Keeping secrets from the people we Love isn’t healthy. It’s the clogged artery of our relationships. We are on borrowed time until we have a heart…
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Why Are We In Relationships, Looking Past Them? Sitting in an empty house wishing a partner would share our space. We are dating several people at a time, passing the months. We have several engagements from different apps and three or four fit-ups( by friends and family). Searching! We narrow it down to the…
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Is The Goal Partnership? If it were, WE would have a more significant meaning than looking to validate I in a relationship. I’s start all their relationships believing they found someone who can enhance their identity—going from I’s to WE’s: A Friend, A Spouse, A Parent, A Village. Then, somewhere down the line, I lose…
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Invest In Our Loved Ones. We lie. We keep secrets. Believing our stories are in the drama. Many of us rather carry the perception of enjoyable instead of healthy. Being prisoners of our desires, the what’s next. We don’t care about what it takes the maintain healthy relationships. Our wishes for self-fulfillment supersedes our faith…
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Simplicity Is The Most Profound Discussion You Can Have. –Colors are colors regardless of their difference Simplicity is the most profound discussion you can have. Any master of a discipline can break the most complex topics into their simplest form. Anyone who wants to keep it complex isn’t trying to teach you. They are…
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Let’s discuss boundaries in relationships. There is a long list of people lining up for acceptance. Yet, what a person will not accept is equally essential. Boundaries! The “No” in relationships. The invisible protection of our moral fiber. What are boundaries? Boundaries are the beliefs we are not willing to forfeit for any human on…
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