Do the people around you inspire you? If the answer is “no,” why aren’t you?
Wake up, not just to breathe but to exhale so others can inhale. Our inability to be satisfied in our relationships is the cause of so many sad and depressed people. We can say it is them and take the easy way out. Or we can look in the mirror and start a challenging discussion regarding why the people around us don’t inspire us.
We see too many lonely people with a phone full of people to call but not one person to call on. We see other lonely people with significant support but choosing to do it all alone. Listen, the most significant thing we can do in life is building a stable personal support system. We don’t have to have a high IQ; we don’t have to have lots of money, we don’t even have to have a unique skill set. All we have to do is search for people that inspire us to be our best. Inspiration breeds passion, passion breeds devotion, devotion breeds dedication, and dedication will lead to honesty and trust, which is the foundation of Love.
We talk about the shortness of life, yet we live in our heads, fearful of our hearts. Walk up to the people you Love, sit them down, and start the uncomfortable discussion regarding your lack of inspiration to wake up every morning. Explain to them what you discovered by looking in the mirror. Ask them if you inspire them. Don’t allow them off the hook with a phrase like “no one should look to others for inspiration because it is within us.” Ask them to get an honest answer. If their answer is “no.” Start indeed examining why friendship is no longer about bringing the best out of each other. If the answer is “yes,” Still explore why they don’t inspire you.
We should want to open our eyes and have the faith of inspiring and positive influential relationships. If we don’t, what is the purpose of relating?
The LoveSnobs
