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Pain Isn’t The Only Reality.
Have you ever had a discussion with someone who thought “pain” was life? Meaning they believe if you are happy with life, misery will ultimately be your outcome. I have! Too many people have this mentality about relationships. They are consistently waiting to be disappointed. This podcast stemmed from my discussion with a woman who felt “pain” was the only reality. She believed that trusting others with your joy is unhealthy. I explained that no one could go through life without disappointments. Yet, when you find people who bring joy to your life, acknowledge that as a reality. I go into it further throughout the podcast and explain how our mentality will shape our lives.

If you live with a defeatist mentality, I hope you can get something out of this podcast. Listen, Learn, and Apply!

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Are you committed to your opinions? If you are, then you may not be committed to your relationships. We all have ideas, but we have to find common ground through those thoughts. We have to discover a way to relate to others. Or what’s the point of being in a relationship? Aziz discusses why being committed to your opinions over your relationships can cause disconnections. Enjoy the podcast and Listen, Learn, and Apply.

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Four Ways To Remain Friends with Your Ex is a podcast about transitioning from romantic partners to friends. Breaking up is a part of searching for a lifetime partner. Yet, breaking up doesn’t have to be the end of the relationship. Two people may not work in a romantic partnership but can be great friends. Aziz explains Four Ways To Remain Friends With Your Ex. If you still see the value of having a connection with your ex-partner, this podcast is for you.

What are the four ways? They are actually questions that need to be answered first.

1. Why did you break up?
2. Do you still have respect for one another?
3. Are you mature enough to watch them date and possibly marry someone else?
4. Do You Have A Vested Interest In Their Quality of Life?

Before two exes can transition to friends, they must clarify the relationship. They should refer to the four ways to remain friends with your ex.

Enjoy the latest AccountableLove Podcast and Listen, Learn, and Apply.

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Arguing is good for the relationship. It’s how we argue that can become troublesome. We typically connect arguments to fighting. But, what if we started looking at arguing as a place where issues breed resolution. Would we be so afraid of conflict or look forward to the outcome? This week’s podcast addresses why arguing is good for our relationships. I breakdown when arguing can hinder our relationships and when it can advance them.

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Guilt Shouldn’t Be A Weapon In Relationships. Guilt should never be a reason for staying, apologizing, or rectifying. Yes, we will feel guilty if we have harmed, hurt, or betrayed someone we Love, but it shouldn’t be our reason for making it suitable. Guilt Shouldn’t Be A Weapon In Relationships is a podcast about identifying and acknowledging when we use guilt as a weapon in our relationships.

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Narcissistic Personality Disorder In Relationships is the latest topic on The AccountableLove Podcast. Joy Larkin of  LiveNarcFree joins Aziz to identify the Diagnosis (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) correctly. Joy shares two significant encounters with Narcs. They also discuss how to be accountable in our relationships. Narcissism has been a trending topic all over social media. So, The AccountableLove Podcast wanted to get clarity on the subject. After this discussion, we hope people have more clarity on what it means to have a Narcissistic Personality Disorder. The LoveSnobs want to Thank Joy Larkin for joining the conversation and to our listeners; Listen, Learn, and Apply.

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Secret! Nothing is better than giving someone a choice. Secrets are the number one reason relationships dissolve. Yet, we still believe we are entailed to our secrets regardless of the consequences. In this week’s podcast, I explain why we should try telling our secrets. I challenge the listeners to be courageous and let our Loved ones in entirely.

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“Don’t Be A Victim In Your Relationships.” It is a podcast addressing the mentality of playing the victim in our relationships. I explain how being victimized doesn’t mean we have to become a victim. Don’t become a victim. The mentality we connect to the trauma or experience is within our control. What we can’t control is the fact that it happened. Don’t waste time trying to manage what was and focus all your energy on what can be. Understand the role you played (if any), reach out and get the other side of the story, get closure if you are moving on, or reconcile if you want to repair what’s broken. Whatever you do, never make a victim of yourself.

Listen, Learn, and Apply.

Enjoy

By The LoveSnobs

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We Don’t Want Relationships.

We don’t want relationships because we believe they are hard. What is so hard about having support in life. People who are genuinely working together to enhance one another lives. Not for individual gain but collective success. 

In this week’s podcast, “We Don’t Want Relationships,” Aziz doesn’t just discuss why we do want relationships but how to start looking forward to building accountable and healthy relationships. It is, however, The AccountableLove Podcast, and the focus is to improve the state of people’s relationships.

Aziz covers four ways to build the connections you want during the podcast. 

We must care about people: He is not discussing your simple cordiality of saying good morning, having Smalltalk in passing, or assisting someone who needs support at the moment. Aziz discusses prioritizing your Loved ones by getting to know them. 

Sensibility: Wanting to be in a relationship takes being sensible, functioning in “better practice,” always thinking about the big picture, and wanting to come to resolutions in conflict. 

Empathy: You don’t want a connection if you can’t look at life from another person’s perspective. Before making life decisions, we should consider how those decisions affect others in our lives. Empathy is the bond of every relationship.

Purpose: Without purpose, why have any connections? Purpose is everything. It is the energy that travels and merges souls. It is why we chose one person over the next. Sharing a purpose is the destination we want to settle in together. We don’t want relationships if we don’t have a unified reason for being in each other’s lives. 

We all want strong bonds! People in which you wish to share life. So if you don’t want relationships, you have never met the right people. After listening to this podcast, you will know what it takes to be the right person and surround yourself with complementary people.

Enjoy This podcast discussion and Listen, Learn, and Apply. 

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Why Do We Cater In Our Relationships?

In this week’s AccountableLove podcast, Aziz examines healthy and unhealthy ways to cater. He urges the listeners to ask themselves why they cater to their relationships. Is it for self-promotion or relationship stability? The answer will determine whether you are in an Accountable, Healthy, Support relationship or not.

Why do we cater in our relationships? If you are asking yourself, what does it mean to cater? It’s defined to serve, service, or provide what is required or desired. We cater in our relationships for various reasons: To strengthen our connections, to resolve conflict, we feel obligated, or we pitied them. Either way, we want to meet their desires because we see a purpose for them being in our lives. 

Here are the four reasons Aziz will discuss: 

Pity: We sometimes cater because we feel sorry for the person in our lives. We should never cater out of pity, and Aziz will explain why. 

Obligation: We cater out of Obligation. We should never feel like we have to. Catering should be a want. 

Conflict: We cater based on conflict. Conflicts are good if the purpose is to resolve. If you are willing to resolve disputes, you cater to your relationships. 

Love: We cater in our relationships because of Love. We promised to give our Loved ones the best of us. We are catering when we are honoring that promise daily. 

Aziz chose these four reasons because they are either known or unknown, but they need to be identified to have an accountable and healthy relationship. The goal is Accountablelove. 

We hope you enjoy this podcast and, as always, Listen, Learn, and Apply. Build Accountable Relationships through AccountableLove. 

By The LoveSnobs