Pain Is Not Cancer Pain It Is A Reward

Pain isn’t cancer. In our relationships, pain is a reward.

It tells us what not to do, who not to be around, and what we still need to overcome. It’s part of the journey. So stop feeling sorry for yourself and release it. You won’t find relief in a drug — you’ll find it in an ear that will use its voice to guide you toward the real painkiller: a solution.

Pain isn’t the enemy. It’s what lets you know when a doctor is needed, when a heart is aching, when something is wrong.

Pain isn’t cancer. Pain is a reward.

It helps us right ourselves and points us back toward AccountableLove. Pain isn’t the disease — it’s the GPS that tells us we need to travel.

So don’t keep pain as company. Don’t let it wall you off from the rest of the world. Pain isn’t the destination; it’s the reminder that  we need help.

Express that hurt today. Let someone in on your pain — because no one should feel sorry for you when your pain just reminded you that you’re still alive.

Stop telling people they don’t understand, and start explaining yourself. You might realize that being pain-free begins with wanting to heal.

Pain isn’t cancer. Pain is a reward in our relationships.

By The LoveSnobs

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The LoveSnobs

LoveSnobs are relationship builders by purpose. We want to live in a world where people are passionate about building relationships instead of just surviving relationships. Aziz & Jerri have been friends for 26 years, but that isn't what makes them qualified. What makes them qualified is their willingness to risk their relationship to hold each other accountable. AccountableLove is the daily practice of equal & healthier relationships and the foundation of our sessions. We have one on one, friendship & couple investment, accountable parenting, and six-week accountable group sessions. Our goal is to partner with our Builders to strengthen their relationship because that is our most vital support in the world.

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