Secrets!
Tell The Truth! It is perfectly “normal” to keep them, but it’s also normal to gossip, smoke cigarettes, and have poor relationships. Is our goal normal or healthy? Keeping secrets from the people we Love isn’t healthy. It’s the clogged artery of our relationships. We are on borrowed time until we have a heart attack. We are forcing our relationship into crisis instead of focusing on our relationship’s health. When the truth most likely would have set us free, it would have bought us closer together.
Uncovering!
Mostly come with excuses, justifications, and passive-aggressive tactics when the truth continues to be the cure. So, why do we keep secrets? Mainly because we live in the past and present, never seeing how silence will lead to silencing our future. Tell The Truth! Easier said than done. But it is easy, open your mouth and speak. Trust the person on the other side of your confession is listening and will decide what fits the crime.
Fairness!
We hope to get a fair trial yet continue to mistrust the system. Forgetting, we helped build and agreed to honor this system. We choose the people in our lives. We promised to give them “choice.” So, why do we unfairly, unjustly break that promise? Because we are scared of the outcome. We are choosing to focus more on how you feel or what we would lose as a pose to honoring our commitments.
Tell The Truth!
Tell The Truth!
We connect secrets to independence. Believing we are entitled to our secrets when we promise to share our thoughts. Deception does not free us. It locks us in a self-prison and isolates us from the people we Love. Remember, they want to know us, all of us.
Tell The Truth!
Love Is A Group Journey!
When we start living life concurrently, we stop keeping secrets and start working through everything as a team. Whether we believe it will help or not. Open up! Vulnerability will begin a problematic discussion, but it will eventually establish an unbreakable bond.
Tell The Truth!
