Who Is At Fault?
Who’s at Fault? Let’s talk about an Accountable relationship. We want mistresses held accountable for breaking into homes with the husband’s keys. We want to convict them for stress-free sex. Do we ever think? Our Husbands are deceiving these women. Can we fathom, they are spinning the same web of lies in two separated directions. Yet, the “heart involved mistresses” should do what wives are having a challenging time doing. We can debate if it’s easier to leave after ten years or one year? The answers will vary.
The Debate Continues
People will say the wife was there first and the mistress should walk. Others would say the wife should allow her husband to see if the grass is truly greener and walk. Either way, both Women feel vested, territorial, and don’t want to be the ones to leave. Suppose we were discussing Accountable Relationships. The correct answer would be they both should walk. Accountable Relationships are about integrity, self-worth, and the sanctity of Love. Are we discussing those attributes?
Why Are We Staring at Each Other?
No, it’s about volleying accountability from one woman to the other.
Wives: “You shouldn’t date a married man!”
Mistresses: “If she were taking care of her husband, he wouldn’t be in my bed!”
Wives: “You are low if you must break up a happy home!”
Mistresses: “If your home was happy, I couldn’t be here to break it.”
Isn’t there something wrong with that picture?
Isn’t someone missing? The Husband.
Yet, Mistresses are held Accountable!
Women make it so easy. Instead of fighting to leave, they fight over men, blaming the women who fell into the same trap as the wive that came before them.
Yes, men are cry and apologize when they get caught. But until they are held accountable, the double dripping will continue.
Who’s at fault????
The one providing the “Blindfolds”
The simple answer is that all three are at fault. The man for not honoring his commitment and the women for a lack of self-worth/accountability to entertain this foolishnes.
Yes, yes, Once the secret is out, they all are accountable for not making decisions. But, ultimately, if both women were kept in the dark when it came to light, the man needs to be held accountable. Yet, they focus their attention on each other, instead of focusing their attention on the person who deceived them. This is a clear indicator they both want to stay with him. What do you think about everyone sitting down and having a discussion to find clarity? Or at least the two women. Do you believe the women are at fault if they lacked the knowledge?
I don’t believe the women are at fault if they didn’t have the knowledge. The idea of all parties sotting together to have a discussion would involve alot of maturity. Which most people lack. It is hard to make decisions on these types of matters when you’re in the dark.