Are We Prepared?

We sit watching televisions show after televisions show, reading books after books, having discussions with one person after another. The common theme is as humans; we can’t trust each other.

Are we prepared?

We continue to see great relationships as protecting another from the truth, to apologize when the truth surfaces. We claim we lie to our Love ones because it is best. If it is best, why are we apologizing? Their pain or our inability to provide choice. Why don’t we believe that people can handle honesty? Is it because their eyes fill with water at the moment or because they give you that empty stare of shock or is it because we think so little of ourselves that we believe they would leave because we would? Whatever the reason, we continue to paint the art of lying as a masterpiece of Love.

Are we prepared?

To look at the people, we care about the most and share our darkest thoughts, our most significant faults, our everything. We ask them to love us for our ability while understanding we will never duplicate the same mistakes. Our capability to think dark but remain light, our dedication to devoting every truth we have to offer. But, we continue to be scared of the outcome in our heads, disregarding our hearts.

Are We Prepared?

 

To have relationships that have Love as a faith and not an emotion, words, actions, but a combination of all three workings in sync—pledging a life of transparency, patience, and selflessness. Let’s see Love as maturing into togetherness. Not this search for finding yourself in others but defining a part of who you are with others. Love is a Group Journey, so if we “Aren’t prepared” to merge, stop saying, “I Love You.”

“We Aren’t Prepared” to relate until common ground is the top priority, we are having honest discussions, and we are searching for the truth in each other.

Are We Prepared?

Or are we going continue to believe deception is the preparation?

The LoveSnobs

LoveSnobs are relationship builders by purpose. We want to live in a world where people are passionate about building relationships instead of just surviving relationships. Aziz & Jerri have been friends for 26 years, but that isn't what makes them qualified. What makes them qualified is their willingness to risk their relationship to hold each other accountable. AccountableLove is the daily practice of equal & healthier relationships and the foundation of our sessions. We have one on one, friendship & couple investment, accountable parenting, and six-week accountable group sessions. Our goal is to partner with our Builders to strengthen their relationship because that is our most vital support in the world.

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